“Don’t treat people as bad as they are, treat them as good as you are.” ~Ralph Smart
“We are only here today not because what does not kill us makes us stronger, but because what does not kill us does not kill us.” ~Sam Sax
It occurred to me that if life is eternal, then Jesus didn’t really “sacrifice” anything. He just had a really bad day.
And I don’t mean that as a dig at Christians. I was just thinking how much better things could be if more of us were willing to have a Really Bad Day every now and then.
Excerpted from Interconnected: Embracing Life in Our Global Society by Ogyen Trinley Dorje ©2017 (via):
We are in many ways creatures of habit. If we live within certain conditions long enough, they come to seem natural to us. But if we had lived in different conditions, they would seem equally natural. Looking at the cultural, religious, or material conditions that others have become habituated to may make us feel that they must be totally different from us, but we are just mistaking something circumstantial for something essential. It is largely an accident of our birth and our life circumstances that we have come to find certain conditions familiar and others alien or distant. It is not an indication of anything essentially other or different about us.
Beyond any superficial circumstantial factors that differentiate us, all living beings share a much deeper common ground… Buddhism identifies this deeper ground as the wish to be happy and the longing for freedom from suffering. This fundamental inner condition lies at the very core of our existence. Our apparent physical and circumstantial differences are relatively unimportant and shallow, compared to the more important — and much more foundational — level of reality on which we all stand.
Focusing on this deeper level can help us to access a sense of closeness and shared experience — of all being in it together. With this as our starting point, we can explore our particular conditions without experiencing them as a gulf that separates us.
“We often think the only way to create happiness is to try to control the outer circumstances of our lives, to try to fix what seems wrong or to get rid of everything that bothers us. But the real problem lies in our reaction to those circumstances. What we have to change is the mind and the way it experiences reality. ” ~Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche (via)
I don’t play myself, but it was fascinating to hear him talk about it. He obviously loves the instrument.